Sermon 7th December 2014 - 2nd Sunday in Advent
Today, our Honorary Assistant Minister, Gill Tayleur, preaches.
The Bible reading is from the Gospel of Mark 1 verses 1- 8.
I wonder if you’ve
ever been to see a TV or radio show being recorded? (Or live?!) About 30 years
ago, I went with a friend to see the Parkinson Show being recorded – for those
too young to know, this was a chat show with a chap called Michael Parkinson, Parky,
a well known journalist, broadcaster and author who had a chat show from 1971 to 2007,
36 years! It was a very popular show, obviously. He interviewed famous people
and celebrities with skill and humour.
Anyway when we
arrived in the studio, instead of getting the show going straight away with
Michael Parkinson, first a comedian was sent out on stage before the recording
started. His job was to warm up the studio audience! To make us relax and laugh.
We were told to laugh out loud, not just titter or smile, at the jokes! I
thought it was all a bit silly and it was certainly contrived, but it worked. The
comedian was funny. I don’t know who it was but I recently read that Peter Kay
was once Parkinson’s warm up act in the studio, so maybe it was him. Anyway, by
the time Parky came out on to the stage, we were warmed up, in the mood,
laughing and cheering! The warm up comedian had prepared us for Parkinson’s
arrival.
John the Baptist
prepared the people for Jesus’ arrival. But not for laughter, quite the
opposite, for sober news about themselves and their need to repent. It was the
bad news before the good news.
The book of Mark we
have here starts with the words: “This is the Good News about Jesus Christ, the
Son of God” Mark says I have some news, and it’s very good news! It’s about
Jesus Christ, whom many people still alive then would have known and remembered
when Mark wrote this, as Mark’s gospel was the first to be written, in about AD60.
Mark says right in the
very first sentence of his book about Jesus’ life, death and resurrection, that
Jesus was the Son of God, the Messiah, the special one the prophets had spoken
about hundreds of years before. He quotes two Old Testament prophets, the very
last one Malachi (from chapter 3 verse 1), telling of the messenger who will
come to prepare the way. “I will send my messenger ahead of you, to clear the
way for you”. And then Isaiah, from chapter 40 verse 3, “Someone is shouting in
the desert, ‘Get the road ready for the Lord; make a straight path for him to
travel!’”
Mark says John is
this messenger in the desert, preparing the way for Jesus. John’s appearance,
camel’s hair and a leather belt, and his lifestyle, living in the desert on
locusts and wild honey, both indicated his prophetic calling. And his message
was incisive. The people were to prepare for the Messiah’s coming by repenting
and confessing their sins. His message was relevant, necessary and contemporary
to his time. And I suggest, it’s relevant, necessary and contemporary to our
time too.
John was to prepare
people for Jesus by holding up God’s standards and speaking his word,
specifically by calling them to repent of their sins. Doing this would be like
making
potholed tracks much
smoother and straighter for the one coming behind, to travel on with ease. A
similar process can take place for us to prepare for Jesus, facing up to the
ways in which we don’t live up to God’s standards – not even our own, often! –
And it will prepare us for Jesus, especially now in the season of Advent,
before we celebrate Jesus’ coming into our world and lives afresh at Christmas.
This week I
discovered something about Advent I don’t remember having heard before, namely
that Advent is one of the church’s penitential seasons, that is a time of
repentance, of turning away from sin.
We know that on the
first Sunday of Advent, we are reminded and challenged to be ready and waiting
for Jesus’ second coming, before we celebrate his first at Christmas. And that
second coming will bring with it God’s judgement, for which we are to be ready.Cameron
made up an acronym last week to help us:
BOWBABOG, that is to
Be On Watch, Be Alert, Be On Guard. BOWBABOG
/BOGBAKW that is Be
On Guard, Be Alert, Keep Watch. BOGBAKW
If you didn’t hear
Cameron’s sermon last week, it’s on the website, or ask for it.
But after that
Advent Sunday pause, we often rush full steam ahead to thinking about Christmas,
and skip the penitential side of the season of Advent. We want to get on with the
Christmas celebrations, me too! Decorations are up in shops very early, gift
catalogues, work Christmas parties and carol services – they’ve already begun!
But this morning I’d
like to challenge us to press the pause button, to stop and consider the
penitential aspect of Advent. We’ll be better prepared to receive the gift
of the Christ child at Christmas, if we do! That is, if we stop and take
seriously the need to repent, to hear the message of John the Baptist.
Mark tells us that John
said, “‘Turn away from your
sins and be baptized, and God will forgive you’
Repentance and
forgiveness. It’s the bad news before the good news. We need to own up to
what’s wrong in our lives and before God, before we can receive and appreciate
his forgiveness and love in the face of it!
So what exactly is
repentance? We’ve probably all heard before: it’s not just saying sorry,
not even just being really sorry. Repentance is about turning around,
turning away from one way of thinking, or behaving, to another. It’s turning to
move in the opposite direction, replacing one movement with another.
HOW we do this, HOW we repent, can be explained by breaking
down the repentance process into steps, and I have personally found this
process hugely helpful, not just in theory but in practice. The steps of
repentance rather neatly all begin with the letter R:
The first R is for
Recognise. First we have to recognise our sin as sin. The word sin is unpopular
and unattractive, but if we stop and think about it, we can recognise that a
lot of the time we live with ourselves at the centre of our lives instead of
God. As they say, the word sin has the letter I in the middle, me in the
middle, my life is All About Me.
This self
centeredness is played out in both our actions and our motivations, and we need
to recognise our sin in both. We’re selfish, we’re greedy, we gossip, we lose
our temper, we lie. We get angry, jealous and mean. Critical, manipulative,
controlling, lazy – need I go on?! There’s a famous prayer that says:
Dear Lord,
So far I've done all right today.
I haven't gossiped,
haven't lost my temper,
haven't been greedy, grumpy, nasty, selfish, or overindulgent.
I'm really glad about that.
But in a few minutes, God,
I'm going to get out of bed.
And from then on, I'm going to need a lot more help.
So far I've done all right today.
I haven't gossiped,
haven't lost my temper,
haven't been greedy, grumpy, nasty, selfish, or overindulgent.
I'm really glad about that.
But in a few minutes, God,
I'm going to get out of bed.
And from then on, I'm going to need a lot more help.
I identify with
that! Which of us lives up to even our own standards, never mind God’s? We ALL
fall far short of them, and we need to recognise it.
In many ways this is
the hardest part, for we’d much rather make excuses for ourselves. I know I
would! It’s much easier to say “it’s only human”, or “it’s very
understandable”, than to own up to recognising our sin for what it is. We try
to fool ourselves that it isn’t really that bad.
For example, I
smugly congratulate myself on something kind I’ve done, and how special that
makes me to that person. Rather than recognise my wrong attitude, it’s easier
to tell myself that feeling like that is only human, everyone does it. And yes
a lot of us do think like that – but it’s a self-centred thought, a proud one,
puffing myself up, instead of praising God for what’s been done. That’s not Godly,
as it should be.
We try to avoid
recognising our sin in another way too: we blame someone else! If I am exasperated
and rude to the person who has kept me waiting on the phone for 10 minutes, I
think “well I was treated badly”. But the truth is simply, I’ve been rude &
angry. Jesus didn’t soft pedal this; he said sin had a broader
definition than we might want to give it, not a narrower one. He said even to
think an angry thought is like committing murder. He certainly didn’t excuse
sin in any way. Every single time we fail to live up to the Godly way of living
that Jesus came to show us, we sin. We can try and cover it up, saying, “it’s
only human”. Of course our sin is “only human” – but Jesus had to die on the
cross for us humans!
Another excuse we
make for ourselves is by comparing ourselves to others who we feel are far
worse than we are. We think, “I’m not that bad; I’m not a drug pusher or
armed robber or child abuser.” There’s always someone worse than me. But relative
to God’s standards, and relative to the perfect life of love and goodness that
Jesus led, we ALL fall a long way short. A person standing at the bottom of the
world’s deepest mine, and one on top of the world’s tallest mountain, are both
equally far off when trying to touch the stars!
So, with various
excuses on the tip of our tongues, we have to be determined to recognise our
sin for what it is. But often it doesn’t take much digging to see what’s going
on in our hearts. And if we ask God to show us the attitude of our
hearts, then it really doesn’t take long! We just have to choose to recognise
our sin for what it is.
So that’s the first
R, to Recognise. The next one is very straightforward. It’s to Repent. To
actually say to God, humbly, I have sinned, I am responsible, I have done
wrong. To say, it’s part of what Jesus had to die on the cross for, and I
deeply regret it. I’m sorry, I repent and I humbly ask your forgiveness even
though I know I don’t deserve it.
And that’s when the
bad news makes way for the Good News!
The wonderful news is, that God loves us so much, that He does indeed
forgive us, as John the Baptist reached (repentance and forgiveness). God’s
forgiveness, His mercy is freely available to everyone who asks for it. All we
need to do is to receive it. And that’s the next R, to Receive. Our sin can be
forgiven, thanks to Jesus’ death on the cross, as we’ll be celebrating in
Communion shortly. When Jesus died, he took the sin of the whole world, and
that includes yours and mine, on to himself, and took our place so that you and
I might be free from the punishment we deserve. So that we can be forgiven. How
wonderful to know we are deeply loved by God and to receive His
forgiveness! We don’t have to earn it, we simply have to receive it.
As William Barclay’s
lovely invitation to Communion – that Cameron introduced here – says:
“Come [to God],
not because you are strong,
but because you are weak.
Come, not because any goodness of your own gives you a
right to come,
but because you need God’s mercy and help.
Come, because you love the Lord a little
and would like to love him more;
Come, not because you are worthy to approach him,
but because he died for sinners like you and me;
Come, because he loves you
and gave himself for you.”
We recognise, repent
and receive.
The next steps are
to Refute and Realign.
To Refute the powers
and the lies of evil and realign ourselves with the truth. You don’t have to
look very far to see the power of evil; pick up a newspaper or turn on the TV.
The powers of evil want us to trick us with lies, and we can refute those lies
and the liar who encourages us to believe them.
So for example, it’s
a lie that I’ve the right to be angry with someone because they’ve treated me
badly. The truth is, Jesus says we’re to treat everyone well, even to love our
enemies! It’s a lie that I have to fight my corner all the time and insist on
my own way, to feel safe in the world. The truth is, God can be trusted and I’m
safe in His love, no matter what dreadful things happen. So the fourth step is
to Refute the lies and the liar, and we do this by simply saying so. And we
Realign ourselves with the truth by choosing to believe and speak the truth in
that situation instead.
And finally, after
we’ve recognised, repented, received, refuted and realigned, the last step in
this repentance process: to Replace. We replace the old sinful way of thinking,
and behaving, with the one that goes in the opposite direction. In the turning
around picture, this is when we start moving in the opposite direction.
Instead of thinking about how we can get our own way, we consider how to put
others first. Instead of prioritising our own comfort or fulfilment, we give
our energies and love to serving others. Replace.
So, the Rs of
repentance. Recognise, Repent, Receive, Refute, Realign and Replace.
To show you what I
mean, here’s an personal example of what this process is like in practice. One
of my failings or sin is that when under pressure, my natural inclination is to
try and take control, and boss everyone around in a rather unpleasant manner.
It happens mainly behind closed doors with my family, as is often the way isn’t
it, that the people we’re closest to are on the receiving end of behaviour we’d
be embarrassed for others to see. It’s not pretty, and afterwards, I feel very
sorry and need to apologise, to those involved – and to repent, to God.
My prayer of
repentance might go something like this:
Dear God, I
recognise that I’ve been rude and inconsiderate and tried to push everyone
around. I Recognise this as sin, part of the sin that put Jesus on the cross.I
Repent of it. I’m truly sorry and wish I hadn’t done it. But I Receive your
forgiveness, gratefully!I accept its cleansing power. And now I Refute the lie
that I have to feel in control when things are all going wrong and difficult. I
Realign myself with the truth that you are in control and I can trust you
instead. Lord, help me and empower me to Replace this controlling behaviour
with gracious, considerate, kind words & deeds in future. I pray in Jesus’
name, amen.
That’s what I do –
and I can honestly say it has made a big difference in my life!
To finish then, the
Bible describes repentance as a gift, and it’s a powerful gift. It’s a gift
because it comes from God’s wonderful love and mercy for each one of us. And
it’s powerful because it’s the way we get free from the sin we’re stuck in. The
way we turn around, and move in the opposite direction, so that we can live as
God intends, changed. That is a gift indeed, and we’ll be best prepared for
the gift of Christ at Christmas, if we pay full attention to John’s call to
repentance first.
So this Advent, let’s
be serious about repentance, so that we can know the assurance of God’s
wonderful love and forgiveness, and its great joy this Christmas.
And now let’s
pray...