Sermon 18th October 2015
Today, one of our Lay Readers, Trevor Tayleur, continues our study of the book of James. The reading is from James 3, verses 1-18.
Words and Wisdom
Sajid Javid, who was
appointed Business Secretary in the Cabinet after the May General Election,
tells this story about when he first became an MP in 2010. He was driving home
from the count and turned to his wife and said: ‘Laura, did you ever imagine,
in your wildest dreams, that one day I would actually be a Member of
Parliament?’ And she looked at him in the eye and said: ‘Darling, in my wildest
dreams, you don’t feature at all.’
Fortunately Sajid
Javid was able to see the humorous side of his wife’s perhaps tactless
response. But often ill-considered words can prove to be very hurtful and
harmful, as James so vividly shows in today’s reading from his letter. In our
Bibles, there are two headings in today’s passage, the first ‘Taming the
Tongue’ and the second ‘Two Kinds of Wisdom’. Although the headings don’t form part of the
original text, they do summarise the main themes from James 3, and they are in
fact closely connected.
There are two kinds of
wisdom and there are two ways of going through life. There is a life that is
based on the wisdom that comes from heaven – God’s wisdom. And there is wisdom
that is ‘earthly’ – that has nothing to do with God’s wisdom. In chapter 3
James sets out what that means for the way we use our tongues – how we use words.
We may read these
words from James and think that – we mustn’t lie, we mustn’t slander people
behind their backs and we mustn’t insult people and belittle them with hurtful
words. These are all very important things, and James had them very much in
mind. A hurtful word can be devastating and have long lasting consequences. A
small lie can lead to bigger lies and ultimately to the destruction of a
relationship. And of course the Internet didn’t exist in James’s time. An
ill-considered text message or tweet can literally spread around the world in a
matter of a few hours – perhaps even quicker. We often use our mobile phones as
an extension of our tongues.
James certainly puts
his case very strongly. He was also referring to a bigger picture – the slipperiness
of speech and how we use words. I’ll give an example, perhaps a trivial one, to
show what I mean. There’s a supermarket which has its ‘Essential’ range of
goods. ‘Essential’ means absolutely necessary, indispensable – you can’t do
without it. Here are some of the things that this supermarket thinks we can’t
do without: vermicelli nests, artichoke hearts, cappuccino mousse, cardamom and
black pepper soap, ratatouille provencal and profiteroles. A trivial example,
perhaps, but it shows how words can be manipulated to make us think that we
really need items that are not remotely essential.
George Orwell, in his
famous novel 1984 about the ultimate totalitarian state, was well aware of the
power of words. He developed the fictional language ‘Newspeak’ which was to take
the place of English. Newspeak’s aim was to remove even the possibility
of rebellious thoughts by eliminating from the language the words by which
people might be able to think rebellious thoughts.
In today’s society,
indeed, words are often used to create an alternative reality. There have been
calls to redefine what counts as a refugee to make it harder to qualify as one.
By defining your political opponents as ‘scum’, it becomes OK to spit at them
and to abuse them. Murderous suicide bomb attacks are called ‘martyrdom
missions’ to justify the slaughter of innocents. Yes, words are slippery, they
can be easily manipulated.
James emphasises the
power of the tongue in no uncertain terms. And he also points out that it needs
to be subject to the authority of God’s word. James tells us that the tongue is
far more powerful than we can imagine, because he says that if we can control
our tongues, we can control our entire person. That’s a very bold statement.
And it’s a very positive statement. If we can get our tongues right, all else
follows. But in contrast James paints a very negative picture of our ability to
control our tongues.
James gives some very
graphic images to show the power of the tongue. He likens our tongues to the
bit in a horse’s mouth. The horse is a great animal which gallops with great
power, yet the little bit in its mouth can be used to turn the mighty animal in
the direction the rider wants it to go. There’s also a great ship in the ocean;
that great ship is turned by a small rudder that’s under the water. In the same
way the tongue can direct the course of our lives.
I don’t think many of
us would have said that before we came to church this morning – that the tongue
directs the course of our lives. If I ask, ‘What directs our lives?’ I wonder
what our answers would be. We might say
our hearts, or our minds or our reason. But probably not our tongues. We might
be tempted to think that James is giving our tongues too much authority. Yet if
we think about, we will probably agree with James that the tongue is immensely
powerful.
The horse has to have
legs for the bit to be able to steer it. And indeed what moves us is what is
inside, what is in our hearts. I don’t think James is saying the initial
impetus of our lives comes from our tongues, but with our tongues we construct
the reality of what is in our hearts. If we want to know what is in our hearts,
then look at how we use our tongues.
James goes on to say
that out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. And he goes on to give some
examples that don’t exist in reality to press home his points. In answer to the
questions he poses in verse 11: No, fresh water and salt water can’t flow from
the same spring. And no, a fig tree can’t bear olives, nor a grapevine bear
figs. These images don’t exist in reality.
When we live by a
reality that isn’t God’s reality, then we create something that isn’t real. We
create something that simply serves our own intentions and our own interests.
James says that when we praise God but attack our brothers and sisters, that
has as much place in God’s reality as a freshwater spring that produces salt
water. They are inherently incompatible. One is real, the other is false. It’s
made up; it’s an image and it’s a lie.
So, how can we tame
our tongues? How can we use them in a Godly way? The answer lies in where we
find our wisdom. As I said near the start, James said there are two kinds of
wisdom, God’s wisdom and earthly wisdom – so-called wisdom that rejects God’s
wisdom. The way to tame the tongue is to define reality not by our own
interests, but by subjecting it to God’s reality – God’s reality that is
revealed in God’s word and in his flesh in Jesus Christ. That becomes our lens
through which we view reality. And that can help us to use our tongues
properly.
What does God’s
reality look like? The Bible is full of it. But for today I’ll stick to James.
James has given us plenty of examples which we’ve looked at for the past few
weeks.
In James chapter 2, as
Ben explained to us two weeks ago, in the church we should not be showing
favouritism. If we favour the rich over the poor, if we distinguish between
rich and poor, we are creating a reality which is different from God’s reality
where there is no such distinction – or perhaps even a bias towards the poor.
And also, as Simon
explored last Sunday, faith and good works go together. If we say we have faith but don’t show it
through good works, then we are creating a false reality. Faith necessitates
works. The more we learn about God’s word, the more we learn about the life of
Jesus, the more we will be changed to become like Jesus.
It’s also very easy to
use words to disguise reality in seemingly small ways, but those seemingly
small ways can also be very damaging.
How easy it is to say to someone, ‘Let’s do lunch’ when you have no
intention of doing lunch. Or to say, ‘Do drop by’, hoping that the person will
never drop by. Or to say you’re going to do something when you don’t really
mean it. When we do that, we’re using language to hide and to avoid facing the
issues. Also, how easy it is to gossip behind someone’s back, to make snide
remarks you wouldn’t make if the person was there.
When we say things
like that, it’s salt and freshwater coming from the same spring. We’re
contradicting God’s reality. And to tame our tongues, to get away from saying
things we don’t mean and to avoid petty gossip, we need to tune into God’s
wisdom.
James doesn’t mince
his words here. The wrong kind of wisdom is bitter and arrogant. It is a spirit
which is carping and critical. It may seem superficially wise, but in reality
it is cynical and destructive. And when
a person with that kind of spirit claims to be a Christian, James has a sharp
response. That sort of spirit is ‘earthly, unspiritual and demonic’.
Harsh words, but this
earthly wisdom can be very pernicious in its effects. It may give some
appearance of wisdom. Cynicism often does; it often has some appeal. You
wouldn’t expect a demonic mind-set to make itself too obvious, would you! But
the most notable thing about this earthly wisdom is that it drives people
apart, instead of bringing them together. Instead of producing harmony, it
brings about strife. A person with this type of wisdom may have a sharp brain
and a persuasive tongue. But their
effect, whether in church, on committees or in a community group, is to cause
trouble and hurt relationships. It’s a spirit that seeks to find fault without
suggesting any solutions. Yes, we should stand up for what we believe in, but
we should do it in a positive, constructive way.
James declares a
special blessing in verse 18 on peacemakers. They will reap ‘a harvest of
righteousness’. Right at the start of the letter James encouraged his readers
to ask for wisdom as God will generously and
graciously give us the wisdom we need. And now James tells us what that wisdom
will look like. It’s not a question of knowledge or being a rocket scientist.
The true wisdom produces right relationships. It brings people closer to each
other and to God. James describes true wisdom in verse 17 as ‘pure …
peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial
and sincere’.
The cynic
full of earthly wisdom might dismiss these characteristics as naïve and
unrealistic. But what do we want in our church and community? What will build
up our church and community? What sort of people do we want serving and helping
us? Which one would you rather have as your neighbour? Someone full of bitter envy and
selfish ambition? Or the peace-loving and considerate person? It is, as they
say, a ‘no-brainer’. The challenge for
us is to become that neighbour ourselves, the peace-maker who builds up and who
is willing to serve.
I’ll
end with some words from the commentary on James by Tom Wright, the noted
theologian and former Bishop of Durham; ‘These characteristics [that is the
characteristics of heavenly wisdom] are hard to acquire and hard to maintain.
They can only be sustained at great personal cost. They only appear when there
has been a steady habit of prayer and self-discipline; even then they may take a
while to show themselves. It would be worth spending time to work through the
words in this list one by one [‘pure … peace-loving, considerate, submissive,
full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere’]. Do it slowly. Review
your life in the light of them. You might want to make a note of the times, the
places, and particularly the people, that make it hard for you to live in this
way – and then to pray for strength, and for this wisdom from above, to hold
firm when the challenge comes round once more.’
Let’s pray: Father,
help us to use our tongues wisely. Give us insight to follow James’s
encouragement, so that we may live by your wisdom. Amen.